What is the reason for this fascination for adult women among the male gender? A therapist tells us all the details
In the porn world, moms are the queens. MILFs (“Mother I’d Like to Fuck”, for those who have not yet found out) is one of the categories that are higher in the ranking of the most consumed VR Porn sites, such as Pornhub. In short, women over forty are highly desired by Spaniards, as well as by users around the world. The moans of actresses such as Lisa Ann, Nikki Benz, Brandi Love or Vicky Vette resonate in the onanistic bedrooms of the five continents. The fact that MILFs play such a prominent role in the sexual fantasies of hundreds of straight men is not trivial and should not be overlooked. For this reason, Justin Lehmiller, a researcher at the Kensey Institute, decided to write a book entitled ‘Tell Me What You Want’ in which he tries to address the reason why moms are so desired among heterosexual audiences male.
MILF porn reverses conventional gender roles according to which men play the dominant role
According to Lehmiller, 88% of the 4,000 men he interviewed confessed to having fantasized about mature women on a regular basis, while 42% said they often. It is unavoidable to wonder why such fascination for this category is due to such percentages. “To understand their appeal, we must take into account how MILFs are portrayed in pornographic videos,” argues the researcher in the magazine ‘Men’s Health’. “Many times they are portrayed in a very different way than younger actresses do.” If there is a peculiarity or difference between “teens” and “MILFs” it is the role they play in front of the screen. In this case, the most advanced in age almost always use the dominant one, while the youngest the submissive one. Depending on what the user prefers at all times, they will choose one option or another. This is reflected in a study published in the ‘Journal of Sex Research’ in which the content of 50 videos of mature women and another 50 of young women was analyzed.
Perhaps the fantasies of mature women are just one of the ways in which they unleash their sadomasochistic drives
MILF porn reverses the conventional gender roles whereby men dominate, “Lehmiller theorizes. According to the study results, MILFs were much more likely to take control during the encounter, as well as the pace of sex. the sexual relationship. Another of the peculiarities of the videos of “mature women” is what the researcher calls the “occupational status”. In the category “teen” they are the ones who hold a greater position of power, whether they are heads of office or teachers, but in those with older women, it is men who appear playing the roles of students or employees at lower levels.
The results suggest that men who are attracted to MILF porn may feel more aroused by playing the submissive role in front of one or more powerful and dominant women, “Lehmiller sums up. Similarly, he discovered that these traits carry a certain taste for being subjected or sexually humiliated. “Which connects him with certain aspects of BDSM,” says the researcher. “Perhaps fantasies with mature women are just one of the many ways in which people give free rein to their sadomasochistic drives.” not only that. “Interestingly, I perceived that men who fantasize about these types of women tend to need more affection, which means that they are more insecure in their relationships,” observes the researcher. “In general, they are more concerned that their partner can abandon them and they need much more reassurance. The most nervous men are distressed by sexual rejection, so they prefer to be with a person who shows great interest in sex and takes the initiative.
